Question

What does a participant need to know, or do, relative to the situation with her neighbor and the tree?

Answer

Just as it has been expressed on the beginning, change. What is it that is needing to be changed?  Is it a relationship that is needing to be changed?  Is it an acceptance that needs to be changed?  Is it your perspective?  It is their perspective?  For you see, what is it in this circumstance that needs to be changed?  For you are trying to do the appropriate actions. You are aligning yourself and you are trying to let the universe guide and assist you—but, yet, there is a bit of humanness that gets sprinkled in to the connection to the universe. 

It is not a pure connection to the universe, wishing something to take place (guidance and assistance in this circumstance).  There is still an underlying aspect of the humanness that is wishing to pull on the strings. So, what is it that needs to be changed?  Is it you and how you will allow fully all resolve? Is it allowing them to take whatever appropriate actions need to take place, understanding and trusting that the universe has already aligned it for you? 

So, it is an assessment point. It is this place you must enter into—a point of perspective that is difficult to see at this point.  It is truly understanding what needs to be changed with all of the aspects of this circumstance. Yes, there are multiple pieces involved. There are multiple individuals involved. Ultimately, how much of the humanness is trying to maneuver versus fully trusting and understanding that you have done all you can do?

The universe, now, has control.